There are many reasons why a woman chooses to have an abortion--danger to her health, a chromosomal disorder of the fetus, personal choice, a pregnancy resulting from rape or incest.

No matter what the reason, abortion is not an easy choice, and it is often life changing.

Where do you go for help with the emotional pain that can follow abortion? Are you reluctant to seek help? Do you fear getting caught up in the political war over abortion, of being judged harshly, or having your grief discounted because it was your "choice."

There is help. Call for support and additional information: 412-687-1234.

The grief and emotions that may surface after an abortion (sometimes months or years later) generally go unacknowledged and untreated. You may have some or all of these symptoms.

• Do you struggle to turn off feelings over your abortion?
• Do you avoid books, magazines, TV programs, things that deal with babies or pregnant women?
• Do you feel uncomfortable, even resentful around pregnant women and children?
• Do you feel guilty or remorseful about your abortion?
• Do you have trouble with emotional intimacy or relationships since your abortion?
• Do you feel distant from or overly protective of your other children?
• Do you find yourself not usng birth control now?
• Do you practice irresponsible sexual behavior?
• Do you experience periods of prolonged depression since your abortion?
• Have you had any suicidal thoughts or attempts?