Reflections

Motherhood isn't just a series of contractions, it's a state of mind. From the moment we know life is inside us, we feel a responsibility to protect and defend that human being. It's a promise we can't keep. Erma Bombeck (1995)

One of the hardest things about their deaths is that people don't allow you to speak of them like they do other relatives who have died. I am proud of them just like I am proud of all my children. (A mother's review of Silent Sorrow on Amazon.com)

Unfortunately, our society is so polarized on the abortion issue that it is hard for parents who make this difficult decision to find support that truly helps their grieving process and enables them to heal. The pro-choice faction tends to diminish the need to grieve following an abortion, while the [pro-life] groups seem to offer parents...judgment rather than understanding. Perry-Lynn Moffit (2007), Chair Pregnancy Loss Support Program National Council of Jewish Women.
Links of Interest

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Articles and Websites

→Pregnancy Loss: When the Unexpected Happens

Secret Club Project: Understanding Pregnancy Loss Through the Arts
→March of Dimes: Resources on Pregnancy & Newborn Loss


 

Podcasts and Videos

NPR Podcast: A Mother's Memoir of a Child She Never Knew
A story about Elizabeth McCracken and her book An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination


Books

Grief Unseen Comfort Silent Sorrow

 

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day

PAIL logoOfficial Site of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day
On September 28, 2006, Congress passed House Resolution #222 supporting the goals and ideals of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day--October 15.

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